Time, space, logistics are all just circumstantial in the Ex Universe

I often wonder how I would react if I ever saw my ex's.  Like the author of this article, I think I would feel compelled to punch, shout obscenities, or kick my "bad" ex where no guy wants to be kicked just because he hurt me so bad.  Or I might run, hide, and cry like she did. I don't know nor do I think I'll ever find out . . .  Simply due to the logistics of it all. Boy, does that  make me happy! Last week marked our one year since our break up.  It was a little rough on me, but, in the end, having dated him and gone through the break up the way that it happened, it has made me a much better better person.  I sure learned a lot about life and love . . . people in general.

It's just weird how we can love someone so much, then hate them so much.  I hope that I can get to a point where I don't completely hate my ex. I feel like he used me, and the one thing he promised he would never to do me, he did.  The pain has definitely eased over the past year, and I don't get upset when I think about him.  I, mainly, just hold anger towards him.  I'm sure I'll eventually forgive.

Anyway, the author also speaks of another ex, whom she met up to catch up on life.  I often think about my college boyfriend, and what meeting up with him would entail.  We've casually messaged and emailed back and forth over the past year or two.  I feel like I got a lot of closure through one of our last interactions.  He would be someone who I would want to run in to. I think he's a great person, and I, truly, wish all the happiness in the world.


Girl Talk: Assorted Notes On The Dreaded Ex Run-In - The Frisky:

"It’s funny how you can love someone, then hate them, then be furious with them, long for them, mistake them for every stranger on the street, obsess over scenarios of running into them, and never have it happen until the exact moment that it does. And it’s fine.
When a relationship dies, it leaves cosmic matter behind that keeps on existing and evolving in some hidden universe somewhere. Every once in a while, you’re reminded of its existence for a moment, and then poof! Back into the ether! Time, space, logistics are all just circumstantial in the Ex Universe."

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